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I’m Nancie and I wrote this book…

…and now I write this blog. Here I share my thoughts about topics that hide behind the links in the left sidebar.

My book, Tea with Dad, Finding Myself in My Father’s Life (Green Place Books) comes out June 1, 2021. Check your local independent bookstore. You can also preorder it at Bookshop.org, Indiebound.org, Amazon.com, or Barnesandnoble.com. These links will take you right to the information about the book on those sites.

I’m glad you dropped by. Get to know me. Let me get to know you. I hope this visit won’t be your last.

Prompts: Control

Prompts: Control

Albert Einstein once said, “I never made one of my discoveries through the process of rational thinking.” So it was with my late evening epiphany last night. I can’t remember what I was doing at the time, but it was unimportant in the grand scheme of things and obviously not memorable. But the epiphany… life-changing.

I’ve spent my life trying to control things I cannot control. Where did I get the idea that I could? It doesn’t matter. It’s ended. At least I’m trying to end it. My morning pages are about that. Here are a few quotes to make you think and, perhaps, prompt you to write. Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments.

We live in a world that is beyond our control, and life is in a constant flux of change. So we have a decision to make: keep trying to control a storm that is not going to go away or start learning how to live within the rain. —Glenn Pemberton, Hurting with God

Prompt: How does “learning to live within the rain” strike you? Does it conjure up an image of giving up or adapting?

Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be. Thomas à Kempis, The Imitation of Christ 

Prompt: Is controlling others a way of not having to control yourself? Is controlling others or things or events a way to avoid how out of control you are?

If you don’t write, then think.

Intersecting Themes

Intersecting Themes

Self-study MFA

Self-study MFA