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I’m Nancie and I wrote this book…

…and now I write this blog. Here I share my thoughts about topics that hide behind the links in the left sidebar.

My book, Tea with Dad, Finding Myself in My Father’s Life (Green Place Books) comes out June 1, 2021. Check your local independent bookstore. You can also preorder it at Bookshop.org, Indiebound.org, Amazon.com, or Barnesandnoble.com. These links will take you right to the information about the book on those sites.

I’m glad you dropped by. Get to know me. Let me get to know you. I hope this visit won’t be your last.

Fog, Sand, and Water

Fog, Sand, and Water

It was a beautiful day on the beach, at least I thought so. I love it when it’s cloudy, a bit foggy, and too chilly for crowds of people. As always, I began to click away with my cell phone camera. I caught Dad surveying the ocean or sitting on ‘his’ bench, the obligatory short video of the ocean. Sandpipers ran in and out of the foam created by the ebb and flow of the sea at the sand’s edge. A few people sat in front of a tent some distance down the shoreline. Then, as always, I turned toward the dunes. I love how their soft shapes contrast with the sharp lines and perspective created by the line of storm fences. Such thin pieces of wood and wire to hold back the weight of the sand that wind blows around in a gale. No matter how many photos I take on that stretch of beach, what I see in the images is never the same.  

Later that week, when I looked at the images, I saw a rainbow. I had not noticed it at all while we were there. It surprised me. Yet it did not. I was not looking for a rainbow.  

I realized that I have been taking pictures to document where I have been, who is with me, and what we saw there. In fact, I have not been “seeing” any of it. I have been taking pictures, then going home to see what I did not see. I’ve been missing a lot.

The next time Dad and I drove out I kept my phone in my jacket pocket. It was an enjoyable day at the beach. One I actually experienced while I there. 

Prompts: How to, If You Want to

Prompts: How to, If You Want to

Start with Seventeen Syllables. End with a Book.

Start with Seventeen Syllables. End with a Book.